I am preparing to go to a funeral today. I have had five people that have been in my life pass away in less than a year and a half. I ponder on the Loss of many loved ones. I can’t help but want to cherish each day as I have had so many losses and such pain makes one look at life differently.
It is these frequent reminders of how fragile life is that makes me question what is truly important about today. I have had this deep longing within my heart to Cherish those in my life. I pray that they feel my love, as that is all we leave behind that is worthwhile.
When you lose someone, it is the memories you created with that person…those little joy’s and moments of laughter that will never be forgotten. It is the TIME, that you shared with that soul that is priceless. It is Love that will endure and give you hope to see your loved one again in the life to come.
We tend to forget our mortality, often I have been guilty of this. We get so consumed in this world by all that has to be done, it’s work, it’s demands but whenever we lose someone dear to us it is a reminder that everything is passing, changing and has made me question my purpose in this life?
What are you living for? Is it just to have financial security or the endless pursuit of success? These are all good and desirable things, yet I feel we too often neglect the most important aspects of being a human being. The ability to slow down and soak in the beautiful gifts of life, your family, your passions, your dreams. All are gifts from God. I pray that you invest your time to enjoy these gifts and make beautiful memories with those you love before they are gone.
What do you truly desire out of this life? Besides going through the daily motions, I want to focus on giving, being compassionate, listening well and inspiring others. I pray that whatever you choose to build upon in this life, whether it be the dreams from your youth, making more time for your family, visiting friends, volunteering, or building a business, that is the beauty of God’s gift of free will. He always gives us the choice, so many choices and it’s up to you.
Whatever you choose, remember your loved ones…they will have what you chose after your gone. What will you leave behind? I pray you choose well.
No sooner had I finished reading a similar article than I saw your post.
http://forher.aleteia.org/articles/dont-wait-tell-others-mean/
Your post, and that article, have given me a lot to think about as I head into the weekend. Thank you for sharing yours Amanda. God bless.
Jeff, I appreciate you sharing the link to the blog you mentioned…I read it and could relate in many ways to the author. Especially how easy it is to be guarded instead of saying what’s on your heart in a moment of vulnerability. That is what I love about writing it’s usually far easier for me to write the thoughts of my heart as opposed to verbalizing my feelings. I hope you had a great weekend! I always enjoy your commentary and responses to my blogs. Thank you Jeff and may God bless you always!